Image result for Leave your past relationship Do you think you made a mistake by breaking up with your past relationship? Are you still thinking about the one that got away?  However, what I can help you with is figuring out whether your imagination is simply running wild or whether you should never have let this relationship break. Another question here is:  “are you still lonely and are clinging to the last meaningful relationship you had, but what if you aren’t? What if the one you let go was the one you should have been with? Let us look at this quote! Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer  -Denis Waitley.

If most days you find him or her slipping into your mind, then it means that you are still confused about whether you did the right thing by walking away.  But then there is nothing you can do now than to move on. Sometimes too, when you sacrifice a lot in a relationship, you will never stop thinking about it because you lost everything. In my 20, I had a relationship with a girl I will not mention her name because I respect her. We were all young then, and it was a GOOD RELATIONSHIP because her family made me vowed that we will never sleep together until we are OFFICIALLY MARRIED. 

So, call it a “A GOOD ENGAGEMENT”.  However, the truth remained that we were never ready to face the pressure behind this kind of relationship, and we broke up after 3 years. I do remember this girl’s family because I was well positioned to help them and then sacrificed a lot in that relationship.

Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer  -Denis Waitley.

Sometimes you need to be honest with yourself and admit that you made a bad decision.  It’s always best to be honest with yourself. Although, I should warn you that admitting you shouldn’t have let this person go won’t get him or her back.

Signs That Your Heart Is Healing.

Each time we love a little differently, if you were able to fall in love again after your horrific past love experience, then you are very lucky. According to some opinion: “You will never love anyone more deeply or intensely, even if you did love again after heart break”. Yes, that is an opinion of someone anyway.  Better yet, how many people would you drop everything for?  leave the country for, risk losing your job for, risk pissing off your current partner for?. Caring is the only thing that gives life meaning and if you see yourself caring in such way, then THE RECEIVER  must be very lucky. Smiling is being happy, and being happy is the goal of life. If thinking about someone always brings a smile to your face, then you have really passed over that bad past. Thus, always know what you want in any relationship because that is the only thing that will keep you happy in it.