win your love
This is what love is all about
  1. “Eros” or Erotic Love. The first kind of love is Eros, which is named after the Greek god of love and fertility.
  2. “Philia” or Affectionate love could be seen as when a person adores someone or something.
  3. “Storge” or Familiar Love could be seen as insecure love. For instant, when someone is scared you’re going to leave because of insecurity or the experience concerning his or her past love etc., that is what familiar love is all about.
  4. “Ludus” or Playful Love is just the same as it sounds. Playful connections between two people for the sole purpose of happiness.  The way they respond to each other, pay attention, lead each other to happiness – makes you think of love.
  5. “Mania” or Obsessive Love could occur when one person desires to possess and protect another person toward whom one feels strong attraction, with an inability to accept failure or rejection – you might feel the need to protect your loved one obsessively, or even become controlling of them as if they were a possession.
  6. “Pragma” or Enduring Love is actually a case in many societies today. When someone is trying to tolerate his partner for some reasons thereby enduring everything whether good or bad. Many women are in to this kind of love for some reasons.
  7. “Philautia” or Self Love – regard for one’s own well-being and happiness. Some call it selfishness but the truth remains that everybody must first love him or herself before loving others.
  8. “Agape” or Selfless Love is to love regardless of your personal needs. It means loving without any attachment to an expectation in return! It means whatever you do, you do it from your Heart.                                                    I don’t think anyone would be happy if the person you love most doesn’t even care about your love for him or her. I don’t know about your own experience but I believe that happiness thrives in a relationship when we try to appreciate those who love us. I remember when I was 20 and childishly fell in love with a girl at 18. She wasn’t secure then due to some family issues which made her never cared about my love for her. I felt cheated then because I wanted her to love me back just the same way I loved her. Selfless Love sounds very good and if you could love that way, then you are destined to be an angel. I may not know what you are thinking about now nevertheless, every love required appreciation.m .